Only time I ever cried writing a blog post…
This movie kills me. It’s unwatchable! And it’s not like it’s has a direct, personal connection– like a song or a place that meant something to me earlier in my life. Nope, this is just a really REALLY sad movie.
I was surprised once in a freshman Foundation class (though, c’mon, I shouldn’t have been) when I asked for a show of hands of who had seen this movie. Wanna guess how many had in a room of 18- year olds? Two of 20–and these are film students! Sure, I get it, they have video games to play, texts and Instagram and Snapchat and Tindr and…
If you haven’t seen Elephant Man, you should. John Hurt as the Elephant Man, Anthony Hopkins as Dr. Treves, directed by David Lynch. We’ll do three scenes with clips and scripts. Prepared to be depressed and uplifted. Let’s go…
- TRAIN STATION SCENE
MERRICK NO! I AM NOT AN ELEPHANT! I AM NOT AN ANIMAL!! I AM A HUMAN BEING! I... AM... A MAN! I AM A MAN!!
- TEA AT DR. TREVES
MERRICK I love the way you've arranged your pictures on the mantlepiece. Is that the way it's done in most houses? TREVES Oh yes. MERRICK Who are they of? TREVES Oh, our relatives... the children. MERRICK The children! May I see? TREVES Of course. Treves goes to the fireplace and takes down a few pictures. He hands a picture of the girls to Merrick. MERRICK (as if looking at an icon) The Children. Where are your children TREVES Oh, they're gone for the day... with friends. MERRICK (the word gives him pleasure) Friends. Ah yes, friends! How nice. ANNE And here is one of Frederick's mother. MERRICK How lovely. TREVES Yes. ANNE And here are my mother and father. MERRICK They have noble faces. ANNE (a cord is struck) I've always thought that myself. MERRICK Oh, yes. Merrick sets the picture down carefully. MERRICK (ever so timidly) Would you... would you like to see my mother? TREVES (startled) Your mother? MERRICK Here. He reaches into his cloak and brings out the small portrait of the beautiful woman. Treves is absolutely amazed. Merrick gently hands the picture to Anne. ANNE Oh... why Mr. Merrick she's beautiful. MERRICK She has the face of an angel... She was an angel. She was so kind... so kind to me. It's not her fault, for in the fourth month of her maternal condition she was knocked down by an elephant. I'm sure I must have been a great disappointment to her. ANNE (visibly touched) Oh no, Mr. Merrick. No. No son as loving as you are could ever be a disappointment. MERRICK If only I could find her. If only she could see me now, here, with such lovely kind friends. You, Mrs. Treves, and you, Mr. Treves. Then maybe she would love me as I am. I've tried to hard to be good. At this, Anne is so extremely touched that she begins to cry. She tries to hold it in, but to no avail. She reaches a hand out to Merrick and he takes it. He tries to comfort her. MERRICK Please... please... But Anne goes on, as Treves, in wonder, watches her and Merrick locked together in the communication of intense sympathy.
- A VISIT FROM MRS. KENDAL
Merrick is a trifle nervous but Mrs. Kendal smiles at him and he relaxes a little. MERRICK Mr. Treves says that you are in the theatre. Do you live there? KENDAL Oh no, Mr. Merrick. I just work there. MERRICK Well, even to work there would be wonderful. Is it beautiful? KENDAL You've never been? MERRICK Alas, no. KENDAL Well you must go. It is one of the most beautiful places on earth. Of course, I'm rather partial. MERRICK Tell me about it, please! KENDAL It's very difficult to put into a nutshell, but I should say the theater is the shrine of the imagination, where one may suspend disbelief and travel anywhere in the world, to any time you desire. You may look over the shoulders of kings, unobserved, battle with ruthless tyrants, and marry the beautiful princess, all in the space of a few hours. Onstage you may be whoever you wish to be, do anything you please, and always, always live happily ever after. The theatre is all the brightest and best things of the world, Mr. Merrick. It is lights and music, gaiety and joy. It's... well, it's romance. MERRICK (the magic word) Romance! KENDAL That's one thing the theatre has in great store. which reminds me. I have something else for you... She produces a beautiful leather-bound volume of Shakespeare's works. Merrick takes it with reverence and begins to leaf through it. KENDAL Have you read it? MERRICK No, but I certainly shall. Merrick finds a place and begins to read. MERRICK Romeo and Juliet. I know of this... "If I profane with my unworthiest hand, This holy shrine, the gentle fine is this: My lips, two blushing pilgrims, ready stand, To smooth that rough touch with a tender kiss." Merrick, embarrassed by these last words, starts to close the book. Mrs. Kendal knows Juliet's lines by heart. She looks at Merrick for a moment, then replies tenderly. KENDAL Good pilgrim, you do wrong your hand too much, Which mannerly devotion shows in this; For saints have hands that pilgrims hands do touch, And palm to palm is holy palmer's kiss. Merrick pauses, looking at Kendal, then continues. MERRICK Have not saints lips, and holy palmers too? KENDAL Ay, pilgrim, lips that they must use in prayer. MERRICK O, then, dear saint, let lips do what hands do. They pray, grant thou, lest faith turn to despair. They both look at each other for a long, silent moment. Treves is touched and amazed. KENDAL Why, Mr. Merrick, you're not an Elephant Man at all... MERRICK Oh no? KENDAL Oh no... no... you're a Romeo.
I’m blubbing reading this; it’s always deeply affected me and I watched it with my 14 year old son last.night and I hope in my heart each time that there is some sweet release from the suffering some go through. I need to believe Joseph Merrick found his mother eventually.
yes, it’s a killer for sure. I honestly can’t watch it!